One of the biggest surprises of staying home has been how much I’ve learned to slow down. When I was working, every minute felt like it was scheduled, rushed, or squeezed in between the next commitment. I didn’t realize how much that pace had become normal for me — or how exhausted it left me feeling.

Staying home hasn’t made life easier, but it has made my days feel more intentional. And honestly, that’s been such a gift.

1. Actually enjoying mornings

I used to sprint through my mornings — get up, get ready, get kids ready, get out the door. I still get up early. Now, the first thing I do is spend time with the Lord. And I enjoy my coffee while it’s still hot. I didn’t realize how much that small shift would affect everything.

2. Being present for the “little” moments

These are the moments that used to slip by without me noticing:
• my kids playing together,
• the sunlight coming in just right through the front window,
• taking a five-minute pause to sit on the couch and breathe.

They’re tiny, but they feel like gifts I never had time to open before.

3. Creating a peaceful home rhythm

I didn’t expect how much joy I’d find in our home routines. Laundry starts first thing, meals prepped without panic, music playing while I clean — these things used to feel like chores I raced through. Or these tasks were just hired out. Now they feel like part of the heartbeat of our home and I WANT to take care of them myself.

4. Time to grow my faith

This is a big one. Slowing down has opened up so much space for reflection, prayer, and just… listening. I feel more connected to Jesus when I actually have time to sit with Him without rushing to the next thing on my calendar. I occasionally take time to go to daily mass or sit with Jesus in Adoration. I go to confession more regularly. (Confession is my favorite! More on that another day)

5. Learning to be okay with “enough”

The slower pace has helped me recognize what actually matters — and what doesn’t. I don’t feel the pressure to cram in a hundred tasks or constantly “keep up”. “Enough” has become a much kinder word, and it’s changed the way I approach my days.